Ok, I don't hide fishing purchases from my wife, but I don't advertise them either. Should the topic ever arise, there are about 150 pairs of shoes in her closet that will get a comensurate amount of scrutiny. I am comfortable that there is already an unspoken truce in this arrangement.
“The world is full of bastards, the number increasing rapidly the further one gets from Missoula, Montana.”
― Norman Maclean, A River Runs Through It